MEN CAN BE GOLD DIGGERS TOO

The Rise of Male Gold Diggers

Are We Ready to Talk About Male Gold Diggers?or will this will piss off my male reader’s? I know for a fact we all know what a Gold digger is, Gold digger is an insult and just because that insult word is used on women more doesn’t mean it’s exclusive to women. Bitch is a gendered term, but it’s used independently of gender. If a man is dating someone for their money, they are gold diggers. Despite the term “gold digger” being traditionally leveled at women, the survey found a higher percentage of men admitted to being turned on by material possessions or by what someone did for a living. When it comes to mixing love and money, it seems that the label of ‘gold digger’ should be placed firmly on men rather than women.

This is regardless of sexuality, gender, race or whatsoever.

Before I even go far with this, In the interest of gender equality, it’s important to note that men are just as capable of being gold diggers as women. ANYONE CAN BE A GOLD DIGGER!

Soo I have a question for y’all, do you think male gold diggers exist? What’s your story? To answer the question, yes male gold diggers exist and you know its funny how people don’t talk about male gold-diggers , it’s weird that we think male aren’t capable of doing such (golddigging) when they’ve been doing it. The problem is that we haven’t been trained as a society to look out for male gold digger’s. Hopefully, that’s about to change and well you might think its rare but they are man who do it for a living. Most men have begun to prioritise Rands/dollar signs and wealth in a relationship. Money and lifestyle are chief among the concerns of modern day men.

It’s truly funny the way dudes call women gold diggers when I’ve never seen more groupie behaviour than how men act when a rich dude is the room. Men not women it seems are far more likely to have their heads turned by classic status symbols like flashy cars and big houses. Have you noticed the upstick in talking about gold digging lately?  Okayy, for ages men have accused women of being gold diggers.Nowadays, its not just a “woman’s game” . Women aren’t the only gold diggers and users anymore, I’ve met soo many hobo sexuals and male gold diggers and people have the guts to even say only male dates down maybe in the past by the past I mean maybe in 1865 when women weren’t working. Men are increasingly dating women for what they have in their wallets, rather than what’s going on in their heart’s.

A friend mine once said “ No man falls inlove faster than a guy who needs a roof over his head” 

Lately, I’ve noticed that more and more single men are openly discussing their desire to marry a rich women. Men are increasingly dating women for what they have in their wallets, rather than whats going on in their hearts. Over the winter, I spent some time chatting with my male close friend of mine about the status of their romantic lives. Only a few of them were enjoying casual relationships but mentioned that they genuinely wished to settle down for good ( preferably with a mate who could easily afford to support them for the rest of their lives if possible ) this discussion also included gossiping about other men we knew, who were not simply talking about marrying rich women but were actively pursing a massive fortune at the altar. So yeah, I’ve seen both male and female gold digger but during my time of observing them, there several trends that I couldn’t help but notice. 

              DYK: Gold Diggers in the past were referred as “Gigolos”

Personally, I must admit that I don’t find it entirely surprising to see a growing number of bachelors cashing in on financially sound relationships but there is something male gold diggers do when they don’t get things their way and being abusive is one of them. Male gold diggers are far more likely to become physically or verbally abusive than female gold diggers, if a female gold digger can’t get what she wants she leaves. Its that simple for us females, primarily because women know that they are at a physical disadvantage to men. They don’t usually want to deal with retaliation. A male gold digger who doesn’t get his way, may end up physically intimidating and berating his target until she relents. 

I know a lot of people will kinda make this news alert a choas, but lets talk about it. Women are no longer the only ones with “gold digging” ambitions and business strategies, but men have embraced the time-honoured practice with equal resolve.

With most women not alert of the new generation of these men who are gold diggers, they are left in debts, heartbroken and counting their loses.

Where have responsible men disappeared to?