SNEAKY LINKS AKA BOOTY CALLS

 Being a Sneaky link

This blog post is going to get somebody in their feelings! Sneaky links AKA BOOTY CALL, side pieces and friends with benefits IT'S TIME to talk about it more especially sneaky links. Are sexual vacations in a relationship okay? Can having a sneaky link create a soul tie? Who's been a booty call before and why?

You may have already guessed it as it’s pretty self-explanatory, but a ‘sneaky link’ is a slang term used to describe a person that someone is secretly hooking up with(having sex)

Another way to think of it is a person you’ve sneakily linked (linked is a slang term for meeting up with). This is more of a booty call situation and no, being a sneaky link isn’t romantic or cute, it means you are a booty call ntsena!

Is it worth it being a booty call?

This thing of booty call or sneaky links is becoming a norm, why do we always do this to ourselves though? First we almost normalized cheating now its this trend?😩 give yourself a break! One thing that’s always on top trends? Sneaky link’s. Thousands of young women have taken to the app TikTok to tell stories about their sneaky links, not realizing that they’ve fallen into the toxic trap of hookup culture and false empowerment but who am I to judge.

Having sexual relations in secrecy started off as a taboo. However, it is now refashioned into a generational obsession with pursuing intimacy in ultra-privacy. This emerging sneaky link trend appears as an escape for Black sexual liberation, all while encouraging contradictory ideas that simulate modern-day polygamy. The power struggles between self-identity and sexual identity have intertwined with the inner struggles we all experience as students or grownups . It has become customary for everyone to give into the temptations of sneaky links, despite the risks. 

“Truthfully there is no set-in-stone way to change or end sneaky link culture”

As content on social media continues to normalize the engagement of having private partners with memes and songs, sneaky links remain a superior alternative within the community especially black community. If we are being honest yes sex might be good and here is another thing, some people tend to confuse good sex with being in a relationship, you guys like being taught everything smh. Good sex can confuse you into thinking that you are in a relationship with someone. He only calls you on Friday when he is drunk and horny, has never taken you out, never introduced you to any of his friends, all you two talk about is sex and you still think it’s a thing? Wake up, but if the sex is that good then good day. Remember this though, they don’t like you, they just had no other option. There is something that’s just off about this sneaky link as you can see.

The fun and games

If there is one thing I know and I’m sure of is that sneaky link just ain’t it because lets say it’s Friday and the person who you were supposed to shag with is starting to behave funny. Later on he/she texts you that they won’t make it, you now go through your phone to see who you can call to salvage this most unfortunate situation. You call them over, you have hot steamy sex and what was about to be a boring weekend is lit up. There is always a backup even if its a sneaky link situation that’s the most irritating part.

Before I even go further this not a win win situation for men if that’s what you thought. Women have booty calls to but it’s different; women fuck who they want but men fuck who they can. So when a woman calls you, just know she really wants you to hit it. They call anytime of the day as long as they have the time and opportunity, when I talk about opportunity am talking to those who are cheating. Most women have feelings for their booty calls, that’s why when your woman cheats you should be worried because your love life is in the shit. Women know what type of sex they want, they manifest it first 

and when they see an opportunity they grab it with “both hands”……

The situationship

Nobody wants to be a booty call I mean who here can comment after reading this post and be like mina I just prefer being a booty call? Nobody! Just like I said but booty call sex is so good because you weren’t even expecting it. You were just lying there with no plans, your phone beeps and it’s a horny soul call you over. Sometimes it can get toxic because you can’t always be horny. There are days you need somebody to talk to, have a deep conversation about life but he just wana fuck. Now you are there feeling lonely but again you can’t just walk away, you’d rather be sexually satisfied than feel miserable. Most people call it the, “toxic d*ck”. Now you see why I love being a sucker for love? Not for pleasure.

Being a booty call for anything is the worst, deep down you know they even don’t care about you, You are there as a replacement and you are always going to play second fiddle. You can always refuse though but we all know you can’t just walk away from good sex. The only thing that ties you with that person is sex, nothing more nothing less if you don’t agree with me fall inlove with your sneaky and see what’s going to happen.

Stop Calling It A “Situationship”—You’re A Booty Call

If you’re dating but without the titles of “boyfriend” and “girlfriend,” you might call it a situationship. But let’s get real: a “situationship” is really a nice way of saying you’re a booty call until someone better comes along. It really just piss me off when someone calls their sneaky link a “situation” noo you are a booty call and that’s that. There is no need to even feel bad about it, you chose that for yourself soo own it.