DATING A GROOVIST.

Life of a groovist

Since it’s Monday, the groovist will also get a chance to read the blog post as they got to rest cause yesterday was Sunday, though I am not one to get on topics like these but, I know most of us are dating real groovists. There is a lot that comes with dating a groovist. Before I even get too far mind you this is not relationship advice blog, I just lay a few things here and there 'cause I suck at relationships too, but a girl knows a lot more than you think. 

On weekends, I know some of you wait for a good morning text from your significant other who is a long time groovist but worry not it comes in the afternoon as always but today things are back to normal. A lot comes with dating a groovist and honestly it’s not for the weak, it’s not like dating jim and jack, it’s for the ones with heavy hearts . 

I haven’t been the one going around dating groovists but ,with a history of having a thing with a groovist I can tell you it wasnt an easy road. I used get a good morning text in the morning not in the afternoon, haha, I guess we not the same. This saying of "date our type" is essential. 

Can you handle dating a groovist?

Dating a groovist or someone who parties a lot is not easy like I said before, especially when you are a groovist and your person is not really a groovist, if you are not ready for the late night calls when they drunk, them wanting to see you and asking their friends to come see you even if it’s 3am . There is no pain that comes with dating groovist but, the pain comes with dating a groovist girl who has zero cent in her purse who just goes around parading until she gets a guy to buy her drinks, but not your girl though.

Some would say “I don't think you can have a stable & healthy relationship with a groovey partner” but not really, dating a groovist doesn't need an insecure and overthinking partner , honestly! The level of being insecure and still going for a groovist just sounds crazy! But we all done some crazy sh*** this is the drug that you don’t want to take. 

Girls with their own money

I usually clap back at people who start telling their girls not to drink or party when they do the same, being 100% the girl I am, go drink that booze, go party with or without your man lol but don’t go empty handed though. Gent’s, there is nothing wrong with dating a groovist girl. It’s a good thing going to drink with your own money as a lady just like gents and those partners of yours telling you not to drink blah blah honey they can kiss your ass goodbye. There is no amount of grooving that can make your man wanna leave you mind you some people find their partners there and after finding you he don’t want you to go out anymore?

I won't sit here and advise you all day/night to date your type , whatever you do just date your type. Refrain from dating people with the hope of changing them. If you have found your partner drinking or smoking , it's either you leave him/her & find a partner who doesn't or you love him/her. If you know she's a groovist & you don't like a girlfriend who parties, don't date her. Obviously there's someone out there who sees nothing wrong about a girl who parties. Dating someone with the hope of changing him or her is diabolical. Just don't date people who do things out of your frame. Date your type.