“I LOVE YOU BOTH” THE LOVE TRIANGLE.

 I love you both??

Although most of us won’t fully admit it but most of us have been told “I can’t choose between you and her nor you and him” and Yes it did sucked you can now admit it, no one is watching you. 

Due to past friendships and relationships I know friends who’ve been through such and even today I still wonder what was the motive behind that “I love you both” was he telling her that he want to be with both of them or he wanted to be with one? Stupid as it sounds one of them is still with both of them but only the one told that I love you both know and the other one doesn’t know nex, funny I know. It’s this saying thats says “toxic is when they can’t let you go but can’t treat you right” and have you thought of how toxic you are to yourself as well? But enough about that I ain’t no motivational speaker when it comes to love, we’ve all fucked up or love fucked us up.

“I love you both”

Choosing between who you love and who makes you happy

“I love you both” Although it is a confusing feeling to have. It is not both at the same time. The man yes man especially, likely has romantic feelings with one woman and guilty caring feelings for the other woman like I said I might not be a love doctor nor like Oprah but I know a few thing’s about love If he is at this stage where he is confused and can’t determine how he feels, then he likely doesn’t love either woman. If he does, then he may never know it until he either has lost that person, or until it become such a problem that he is at the point where he is forced to choose or face loosing both and ending up alone in the end.

You either love someone, or you don’t. When you truly love someone, there isn’t a decision to be made. Don’t get all heartbroken, thing’s like these happen now don’t be all sad, if he love you both like he insinuated then I don’t know what to tell the both of you cause when you love someone They are on your mind all the time and you care about every sense of their well-being and I know two people can’t be on your mind. Everyone else is an afterthought. Have you ever asked yourself if the other girl even know about you or you are the only one who knows about him, this one goes to boy’s as well does your brother in law know you or you know him? 

Is the decision worth it?

Choosing between two people is easier than you think, this trap of “I love you both” is bullshit. There are certainly worse things than finding yourself caught in a love triangle, but try telling that to someone stuck in one. Although it might seems as if you are confused because the both people you are struggling to choose between are all drawn to you in different way’s “they both have amazing quantities” but still soo confused about what to do and has no idea how you got into that situation much less how to get out of the situation.

Love triangle 

Even though the love triangle presents itself as an impossible, emotionally overwrought disaster, it’s easier to sort this out than you’d think. Sometimes its never really about “ I love you both, I can’t choose between you and him nor you and her” its all about thirst trap. Someone once asked me “ What can I do when I am not able to choose between two guys?” My answer was simple “ Pick the second guy. If you really loved the first guy, you wouldnt be thinking about the second guy” 

But if ever you are stuck between “I love you both” situation, although the heart wants what it want’s, free yourself abeg! and if you are the one struggling to choose, If two choices are both equally great, then there is no choice because either will ultimately result in the same fate: greatness. Just throw a dart. Either way, once you’ve freed yourself of the agony of indecision, if you can just commit to the choice once you’ve made it. Of course, if you were the sort of person who could easily do that, you probably wouldn’t have ended up in a love triangle. But if emotion got you into it, at least, for everyone’s sake, use logic to get out.